Wednesday, March 19, 2014

A Daily Schedule that Reflects the Greatest Commandments

My kids have memorized the 2 greatest commandments (Mark 12:29-31)

     Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And
     you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind
     and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There
     is no other commandment greater than these.”

I don't want them to only be able to recite it, but I want it to infiltrate every aspect of their lives. Most of all, I want to teach my kids Who God Is, because I suspect that it is by knowing God and His love and His character that we learn to respond with an appropriate love for (1 John 4:19) and fear of (Prov 1:7) Him.

Second to that, I want to teach my kids that our actions should be motivated by a desire to thank Jesus (for the great extent of His love for us by dying on the cross in our place and rising from the dead so that we may, too, rise and have eternal life) (Jn 14:21).

So we made these. In the center is Love God. The 6 ways (categories) for Loving God are via: Heart, Mind, Soul, Strength, to Love Others (Mk 12:28-31), and To Obey (Jn 14:21). I explained to the kids that when our daily schedule does not reflect these things, I'd be willing to guess we lived that day for ourselves and not for God (for our will and not for God's will).
 


How can I teach this best other than modeling it for them and leading them to live this out?

So, I've recently decided to try using these as categories for scheduling our homeschool days in order that they might know the "why" behind the things we do.  And I've created a notecard box with dividers for these categories (so that each day we can read 1 Bible verse notecard from each category before we begin the corresponding event on our schedule): 






LOVE GOD WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART & SOUL
(WORSHIP via PRAYER, SONG, BIBLE STUDY & PERSONAL PRAYER JOURNALING)
            Notecard Categories:
                      Why Pray
                      Why Read The Bible


 
LOVE GOD (& THANK HIM) BY OBEYING HIM
(RESPOND TO GOD by writing in Prayer Journals)
            Notecard Category
                      Why Obey Him
 




LOVE GOD WITH ALL OF YOUR STRENGTH /
LOVE GOD BY SERVING OTHERS
(PHYSICAL EXERCISES & PRE/POST-MEAL RESPONSIBILITIES)
            Notecard Category:
                     Exercise/Stewardship/Responsibility 


 

LOVE GOD WITH ALL OF YOUR MIND
(MENTAL EXERCISES)
            Notecard Category:
                       Why Learn




LOVE GOD (& THANK HIM) BY LOVING/SERVING OTHERS (play with siblings/neighbors/friends) 
            Notecard Category:
                        Love One Another





The prayer of my heart is that God will use this routine to help me expose my children to a variety of Bible verses about each of these 6 categories and that His Word will take root in their hearts. And I hope God's Spirit will give them understanding that God, alone, is worthy of our affection, time & service and that He (the Life-Giver) is the only One worth living for (not ourselves).

And so...we begin.

In case you are interested, here are the verses on the notecards in each category:


 
Flashcard Verses
 
Why Pray:
2 Chron
7:14-15
 
Ps
34:1-4
55:16-17
145:18-21
 
Pr
15:29
 
Isa
59:1-2
 
Jer
29:12-14a
33:2-3
 
Mt
5:44-476:9-13
6:5-8
7:7-11
18:19-20
26:36-46
26:36-39,42,44b
 
Lk
18:1-8
 
Jn
9:31
 
Rom
8:26-28
 
Eph
3:20-21
6:10-20
Php
4:4-7
 
Col
4:2
 
1 Thess
5:16-21
 
1 Tim
2:1-8
 
Jas
1:5-8
4:1-12
5:13-18
 
1 Jn
3:22; 5:14-15
 
Why Read the Bible:
Dt
8:3
 
Ps
1:1-6
34:8
63:1,5
119:34-38
 
Pr
1
2
3:5-8
8:10-12
8:32-36
15:20-22
15:31-33
17:24
17:27
18:15
19:26-27
28:26
 
Jer
15:16
 
Mt
4:4
 
Jn
4:13-14
6:35
8:31-36
 
Rom
12:2
 
Eph
4:11-16
6:10-20
 
Col
3:9b-10
3:16
 
2 Tim
3:16-17
 
Heb
4:12-13
 
Jas
1:19-22
 
1 Pet
3:13-17
 
 
 
Why Obey:
Pr
3:1-12
3:11-12
5:23
6:20-23
8:32-36
12:1
13:18
13:24
15:10
15:12
15:24
15:32
17:1
17:10
23:14
25:28
28:26
 
Eccl
5:6
12:13
 
Isa
59:2
 
Mt
5:6
5:21-26
6:1-4
6:5-8,16-18
7:24-27
 
Jn
8:31-36
14:15-24
15:4-11
15:9-14
 
Rom
2:4
12:1
 
Gal
5:22-26
 
Eph
2:1
2:8-10
4:17-24
6:1-3
6:5-7
 
Php
1:27-28
2:8
2:14-16
4:8-9
 
Col
3:17,20,23-25
3:20
3:22
 
1 Thess
4:3-4, 6-8
5:12-13b
5:14-24
 
2 Tim
1:7
 
Tit
1:16
3:8-11
 
Heb
12:3-6
12:10-11
12:3-15
 
Jas
4:17
 
2 Pet
1:5-9
1:13-16
 
Jude
1:24-25
 
Rev
3:19
 
Exercise/Stewardship/Responsibility:
Definition of a Steward
 
Pr
6:9-11
15:19
21:25
25:28
 
Eccl
3:1-8
 
Mk
12:28-31
 
Lk 16:10-12
 
Rom
12:4-6
 
1 Cor
6:19-20
6:24-27
12:4-27
 
Gal
5:22-26
6:5
 
Eph
2:10
4:28
 
Php
2:14-16
 
1 Thess
4:3-4,6-8
 
2 Thess
3:10,12
 
2 Tim
1:7
 
2 Thess
3:7-8
 
Heb
12:11-13
 
2 Pet
1:5-9
 
Why Learn
Pr
1:2-7
1:29-31
10:13-14
18:15
19:27
20:15
24:5
 
Eccl
7:12
12:11-14
 
1 Cor
6:19-20
 
Eph
2:10
 
1 Pet
4:10
 
Love One Another
Pr
15:4
15:1-2
17:9
17:13-14
17:17
19:17
 
Eccl
5:6
 
Mt
5:9
5:21-22
5:38-42
5:43-47
6:14-15
7:1-5
18:6
18:15-17
18:33-35
18:35
25:31-46
 
Mk
12:29-31
 
Lk
6:37
17:3-4
 
Jn
13:34-35
15:12-14
 
Rom
5:8
12:9-16
12:14,16b-21
12:16b
12:18
 
1 Cor
13
 
Gal
5:22-26
6:1-2
 
Eph
4:24-32
5:21
 
Php
2:3-8
 
Col
3:15
 
1 Thess
4:3-8
5:13b-24
 
2 Thess
3:13-15
 
1 Tim
2:8
 
2 Tim
2:22-26
 
Heb
12-14-15
 
Jas
1:19
3:13-18
4
5:16
5:19-20
 
2 Pet
1:5-9
 
1 Jn
4:21
 
Pray For The Kids
Ps
119:34-38
139:1-4,23-24
 
Php
1:9-11
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

2 TYPES OF AUTHORITY - Leadership Development

2 TYPES OF AUTHORITY:
 
 
   Oppressive Dictator   
                                                                   Tyrant                                                        Leader

Acts like a Tyrant                                                    Acts like a Patriarch

Treats people like slaves                                       Treats people like family

Instills fear                                                               Generates enthusiasm

Manipulates/Uses/Takes Advantage                  Teaches/Motivates/Encourages/Inspires

… at the expense of others

Arrogant/Proud                                                      Humble

Commands                                                              Serves

Demands                                                                 Asks

Drives                                                                      Coaches

Hypocritical/Demands from others                   Leads by example

… what he does not do himself

Unfair                                                                      Just

Loves/Protects Self                                               Loves/Protects Others

Says, “I”                                                                  Says, “We”

Bossy/Bosses others                                             Team Player/Participates

Blames others when things break down           Coordinates the fixing of the break down

Fires/Kills/Abandons when mistakes are made     Shows Mercy for mistakes

Expects Perfection                                                 Promotes Growth & Improvement

Knows how it’s done                                             Shows how it is done

Takes Recognition/Credit for success                 Gives Recognition/Credit for success
 
 
Mark 10:45 "For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
 
Philippians 2:1-11 "So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.  Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."